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April 30, 2008So, there’s a boy… let’s call him Cute History Class Boy or CHCB for short. And there’s a girl, let’s call her Softball Girl (SG). When SG was handing out teacher review sheets in her History class, CHCB smiled at her and made eye contact. SG had not noticed CHCB before, and there was only one class period left in which she would be able to talk to CHCB, especially since she didn’t know his name and she was going to Cedarville in the fall. SG thinks that CHCB is very very cute, possibly interested in her and if he loves Jesus he could be a potential suitor. SG wonders if she should hand him a piece of paper on it with her name, number and the question “Do you love Jesus?” or if she should just be patient and wait until a man is MAN enough to take the risk to pursue her. Should SG furnish contact information or just sit back and take it easy? Of course, this story is completely hypothetical 
Hypothetically speaking, and entirely from a guy’s perspective, I would suggest that SG simply smile and make eye contact back. If CHCB is interested in becoming a potential suitor, then he will further the exchange. Besides, asking someone if they love Jesus isn’t enough - even if they answer it affirmatively. The proof is never in what people say, it’s always in what they do. (That last part wasn’t hypothetical, by the way!)
I love hypothetical situations …
my advice ..
stick to letting the guy do the guy things .. like pursuing.
I think the girlmaking the “first move” is potentially a bad thing to the future of any relationship.
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Haha ^_^ Thanks guys! I will make sure that SG hypothetically will follow your advice!